Category: Adoptees
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“They do not give the names of the real parents”
Many parents used shortened certificates as proof of name and birth date for their children, but to adopters there was an additional advantage: the fact of adoption—in theory, at least—was not disclosed. This helped hide the shame and embarrassment of adopted status and thus the stigma of illegitimacy for which many adoptees were bullied (as…
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Faulty goods
Initially offering permanence only for the adopters—most adoption societies offered a ‘return at any time’ policy while making mothers sign their child over for life—once the first Adoption Act had been passed in 1926 and parental rights and responsibilities could be legally transferred, permanence worked both ways. […] The reality of this permanency came as…
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Enid Blyton and “The Child Who Was Chosen”
It is clear that there was a great deal of anxiety about when and how to tell your child they were adopted. And perhaps a reluctance, for why else would adoption professionals and others need to talk about how important it was?
Adoption History 